How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 20:17
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
That's it for today.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Is using tech to track or monitor your partner’s activities a sign of love, insecurity, or control?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How did you know you weren't the narc?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Does turmeric help fight cancer? If so, how?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What I need from you?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Ask yourself:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Has a psychic ever made a crazy prediction that turned out to be true?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Making more friends is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
Why does my vagina always itch so badly after my periods?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Are there any guys, crossdressers, or transgender girls here who wear tampons?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.